The word
"DRUGS" means different things to different
people. To a doctor or ill person, it means a cure. To a person
on a health kick it may mean cigarettes, alcohol and perhaps coffee
or similar. To the Police and the majority of the community the
word "DRUGS" mean street drugs. The illegal type taken by those
wishing to disregard the law and health advice handed out. These
drugs can include heroin, cocaine, LSD, amphetamines, barbiturates,
and cannabis. It is against the law to possess or sell these substances.
There are good reasons to make these
drugs illegal. There is no doubt that serious drugs lead to crime
and serious health problems for the individual. It leads to family
problems where everyone suffers as a result of the users changing
attitudes and disregard for others in the family.
A drugs habit is a hard thing to kick,
and becomes even harder the longer you use them. This leads to
dependancy and a decreased tolerance to the substance. To get
the same kick the user now needs more. How does someone support
an average habit costing betwen £60 - £80 a day? Easy - resort
to crime !!! (unless you happen to be mega-rich). That`s what
happens to most drug users, until they decide its time to seek
treatment. Too often they reach a point where they are beyond
help ! ! !
What to look for
It's every parents nightmare finding that
their kid is on the drugs road and not knowing what to do, but
if the symptoms are spotted early enough then professional help
can be sought before its too late.
| The signs
& symptoms. |
- There may be changes in the persons
nature, changing from a happy outgoing person to being
introverted and moody.
- Loss of appetite.
- They may become aggressive or easily
irritable.
- Developing apathy to their school
work or towards long term friends.
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- Pupils become dilated.
- Signs of drowsiness or sleepiness.
- Telling lies or behaving furtively.
- Money or property disappearing.
- Smells, stains or marks on their
body or clothing.
- The obvious. Finding items associated
with a drug user, ie powders, tablets, capsules, burnt
foil, syringes, etc.
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Of course these are just a guide and finding
or seeing just one of these signs is not proof of their involvement.
Be careful you don`t jump too quickly to the wrong conclusion. You
may lose your child's trust if you suddenly confront them with an
accusation founded on YOUR interpretation of things.
What to do at home.
Don`t go jumping off the deep end at your
child before you know all the facts. In doing so you may not get
the chance to speak to them about the subject. They will automatically
see you as one sided and biased.
Speak to you doctor about what to look for. Speak to your partner
about what you have found. It may be that they have already raised
the matter with the child and the child does not want to face
the matter from you again. This may make matters worse. Speak
to the school or parents of other children.
Try to find out if there is something or someone behind the child's
use of the drug. It may be peer pressure, school pressure, some
form of clinical depression
Give them the support they need, even if it does mean they are
in trouble with the Law. The Police would rather you contact them
seeking help for your child first, than leaving the matter to
progress to a point where your child is an addict, and heading
towards ill health and criminal activities.
What to do If !
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If
you find your child in a state which to you indicates having
taken drugs then, first don`t panic, you are no help if
you are flustered. Then: |
- Make sure the person is breathing correctly
and gets plenty of fresh air.
- Turn the patient onto their side, into
the recovery position. Do not leave them unless neccessary.
If you have to, leave someone with them or where neccessary
return to them at the first opportunity.
- Dial 999 and ask for an ambulance.
Explain what you have found. Ask them if you can return
to the patient before replacing the receiver. They may
require further information from you.
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- Collect any powders, tablets, syringes
bottles or other items which may indicate what substance
your child could have taken. This should include any vomit
soiled clothing which may or may not indicate that drugs
were the cause of their condition. Take them with you
to the hospital.
- Don`t be scared to seek advice from
one of the many drugs
related help groups or from the Police. They are here
to help, not to condemn.
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